What I want to see is confident men (those who put it all out there honestly and forthrightly and boldly) going for confident women (who don’t have to prove anything to themselves so they appreciate that bold approach and don’t need to “chase” the guy who they are not sure likes them) But maybe I’m just dreaming? LOL Jordan Says: April 16th, 2012 at 4:36 am MidoriLei I guess the verdict is: Most people are insecure so they have to put up fronts in order to get anywhere in relationships. Once people begin to realize that they have something to offer to another person, then they can throw their neediness out the window. On a side note, glad I stumbled across this blog! MidoriLei Says: April 16th, 2012 at 7:41 pm Jordan, I agree. Thank you! Glad to have you here:) deh Says: